Ladies, 10 simple things.....

1. When a man (consciously, subconsciously and unconsciously...LOL) shows you who he is, BELIEVE HIM. Don’t make up stories or excuses for his behaviour, just BELIEVE HIM
2. Actions do speak louder than words….So when a man says he loves you, that doesn't mean a thing….Let him SHOW you
3. Marriage is NOT the wedding day!! Really, it isn't 
4. NEVER make excuses for your man. If at any point your man insults or abuses you don’t blame yourself and don’t blame it on him being drunk because as they say, a drunk person speaks a sober mind. You are worth much more than that 
5. Never rush into anything. Yes life is too short, but that doesn't mean that we should rush it – just live in the moment.
6. As we grow older we realize more than ever that our mothers are extremely strong women…And wise too
7. No matter how busy you get, always make time for your family. They’ll always have your back when all else fails
8. As we get older we tend to love and prefer laid-back chill sessions rather than pulling off club hopping stunts
9. Sometimes when you feel like you have a heavy load on your shoulders and you are about to give up, just let God carry it. He takes care of his children
10. "As you dress, you’ll be addressed". As superficial as that statement may seem, it’s all too true in this world. Food for thought!!

Those are just my observations and I’m pretty sure I’ll have even more significant ones as I grow older. So let’s hear yours…..